I’m getting a divorce for Christmas!
Welcome to break up season!!
Why are there so many break ups over Christmas and New Years? Why do so many people get a divorce for Christmas? Did you even know it’s break up season?
According to statistics, the majority of break ups occur in December.
January is the busiest time for family lawyers, mediators and divorce mentors and coaches. And, new online dating profiles.
But isn’t Christmas the time for celebrating with family? And having a holiday together? Isn’t it supposed to be the happiest time of the year? So, why so many break ups?
Why is getting a divorce for Christmas so damn popular?
I’ve asked around to help me understand. These are the responses I got …
Work Christmas Parties
Alcohol, flirting and sexual tension. Great combo.
Let’s be honest, you probably spend more time with work colleagues than with your own family. And we do love a bit of green grass. (Be warned, it’s probably fake!)
Admittedly in my corporate career, I witnessed some Christmas party shenanigans. It isn’t pretty.
So, I’m guessing this could be true. But is it only if you get caught?
Do all people who cheat on their partners at Christmas parties break up and get a divorce?
In-Laws
You either love them, tolerate them or dislike them.
They can make Christmas joyful, boring or traumatic.
Is it really so stressful you would rather end your marriage than have another Christmas lunch with your in-laws?
Apparently so.
Holidays
From Boxing Day to early Jan, most Aussies take a holiday from work. It’s summer which normally means happy days. And test cricket.
Shouldn’t the holidays be enjoyed as a time to unwind, reconnect and have some fun? Why is the thought of a holiday enough for people to say “Never again, it’s over”.
Maybe it’s the extra booze? Or test cricket.
New Year Resolutions
I find New Year’s so exciting. Love, love, love it! It offers hope. And closure.
This one I can understand.
If you’re in a relationship that’s not serving either of you (or one of you) well, I can understand the “New Year, New Start” mentality.
The thought of another 365 days of the same shit may be too much to handle and you want out.
An opportunity for a New Year resolution that involves a brighter and more fulfilling future may be compelling. Do you take the opportunity now or wait another year?
If this was your New Year resolution, you have some work to do friend. Please don’t do it alone.
Schedule a free 15 minute call and we’ll get you headed in the right direction. Spots are limited and now is hectic, so be quick!
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